Your ad is just asking for trouble. The only guys who will respond are ones who want sex and no commitment. (and you do nothing to suggest they should want anything more substantial) And who's gonna marry you when you're 35??? Get real--even 30 is over the hill in the dating game. You better dump your baggage and start looking for commitment, b/c commitment is the only way to go. Anything else, and you'll just screw up again. It's no wonder I (and most decent guys) stay far away from divorcees--you're all f---- up.

Dear Anonymous,

Your ad is just asking for trouble. The only guys who will respond are ones who want sex and no commitment. (and you do nothing to suggest they should want anything more substantial)

Thank you for your kind words of caution. You seem to have a very low opinion of your gender to think that only sleazeballs are going to reply to the ad that I have written. I can tell you that I have received over 100 replies to my ad in just a few days and that the majority of them appear to be very honest and genuine people. I think you must be hanging out with the wrong bunch of people.

And who's gonna marry you when you're 35??? Get real--even 30 is over the hill in the dating game.

I'm sorry but either I'm very stupid or you're not making a lot of sense. You're saying that I'd better forget about having a little fun now so that I can hurry up and marry the first man who will possibly take me, even though it's too late to find anyone already? This isn't a very well thought out reply IMHO - it's just a rant.

You better dump your baggage and start looking for commitment, b/c commitment is the only way to go. Anything else, and you'll just screw up again.

If you say that commitment and marriage is the only way to live, then how come you're still single and trawling through the personal ads? I'm just curious. I can only imagine that the women that you have met don't have the same high opinion of you that you seem to have of yourself.

It's no wonder I (and >most decent guys) stay far away from divorcees--you're all f---- up.

On behalf on all of the divorcees have managed to escape from being married to an asshole, I am very glad to hear that they do not have to run the risk of ending up with another one like you or one of the other 'decent guys' you know.

Good luck in finding a baggage-less single girl who's looking for a joyless relationship.

Candy